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| just to prove i can see the group in my other ID i took a screen capture of the header for the group. |
i was posting recipes, stopped to work through some emails, went back to post a recipe for a chili that was pretty good sounding as well as nutritonally sound for any bariatric paitient.
and, couldnt access the group.
which was weird, because i was just in it.
at first i thought it was a FB error, maybe they were updating servers or something.
so i didint let it bother me to much.
went to sleep on it.
woke up today, tried again, and still couldnt get in.
so it came to me to try under another ID i have in FaceBook...
and what do ya know...i could see the group.
THAT told me tons right there.
i could also, scroll through the members list to see if i was in there...to which i saw i wasnt.
by this time...i had already emailed one of the main admins 2 times waiting for a reply. without response, so i went to the other admin...asked her. she said shed ask for me.
the main admin got back with me on the issue.
told me i was kicked from the group for the way i spoke to other members.
im sorry, i didnt realize i had spoke to any of them in such a way to offend them.
unless, they dont like honesty and its brutal format.
to which, as adults, id think most of us have to deal with...
i guess to many people have been coddled and babied and had stuff sugar coated to them.
my main gripe in the group was that people would come in and say stuff to allow themselves to keep doing certain traits or behaviors, and make excuses for certain things. and another main grip of mine was that people assumed to tell others how to do this whole weight loss surgery.
dont know if many people can tell or not, but allot of drs have different views, they have different techniques, and expect different results.
were not all the same, and if the same dr does my surgery a year ago, then yours today, whos to say data hasnt changed just that fast? it happens.
20 years agos data has changed.
anyway, some people just didnt like what i had to say, and went to the admin and talked to her about it to which she took it upon herself to kick me out.
which is fine. i have no issues with that. if thats how she wants to run her group. its hers.
the issue i have with her is the way she delt with it.
when she got back with me she explained that several people didnt like the way i spoke to them..ok, i can change that,,,
and she felt she didnt need to ask me to leave..
true...but as a respect thing..i feel it would have been better to have been asked or at least told that i was on a warning, and told what i did that was wrong.
one mistake (reminds me of someone else who holds one mistake over me) and i was kicked out, and i still dont know EXACTLY *WHAT* it was i did.
she felt it was childish of me to go ask another member if there was any chatter about me...
heck, i had no clue why i wasnt in there, if i had heard that people were saying something, anything, id maybe have a better understanding of WHY i was kicked.
but it is what it is.
and thats that,
didnt need that group anyway.
have a nice life WEIGHT LOSS ADVENTURES.
MICHELLE
UPDATE:
the OTHER MICHELLE also got kicked out...!!!
she came to me to talk about it, i had to be honest and tell her i thought they kicked her because her names similar to mine...
the admin i went to 2 times to try to get an answer im pretty sure thought the reference i made to seeing the group under another name, thought the other name was hers (michelles). well, it isnt.
had to send the admin a note telling her i felt they kicked her out based on me, which i felt was wrong.
and they should reconsider allowing her back in, as she ISNT me...
the other Michelle, thinks its hilarious that a group is run this way, and said shed not go back anyway. LOL
YOU GO MICHELLE! lol
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